Singapore Cupid   Online Dating   Tips for Success   Cost Benefits

What Is Singapore Cupid?

It’s a community where Singles can meet thousands of men and women of all ages and backgrounds that are interested in making new friends and finding romance.

What is Online Dating?

It is the most time-efficient, cost-effective means of meeting other Singles for fun and romance.  Most men and women in Singapore have demanding work schedules that leave little time for socializing.

The most common ways of meeting new people are through friends, work, and clubbing. 

1)      Friends and work offer limited exposure.

2)      Socializing at work might not always be best for your career.

3)      Clubbing involves noise and alcohol consumption.  This is not the most conducive environment for good conversation and responsible behavior.

In addition, all of these situations involve stress in terms of the limited time you have to make a good impression on someone and also to make your own assessment.  And you rarely know what the other person is thinking!  You might be standing next to the man or woman of your dreams every morning on the MRT, but will never know it!

Now imagine a place where:

1)      You can find thousands of Singles from diverse age groups and backgrounds in one location.

2)      These men and women took the time to complete profiles and upload pictures that provide you a good idea in regards to who they are.

3)      Within seconds, you can locate the exact people that are most compatible with you.

4)      Within minutes you can create your own profile to let others know about you.

5)      Within minutes you can contact anyone that interests you and at the same time, others can contact you!

6)      You can communicate with others from the privacy of your own home.  Communication is not rushed, so you have the time to share thoughts in detail and ask questions to learn more about others.

7)      You can set the pace of communication and determine whether you would like to correspond via email, messaging, or phone.  You can exchange photos if you like.  And meet when you are ready!

8)      When you meet, you will already somewhat know the person that you are meeting!  So naturally, you will both be more understanding of each other despite first date jitters.

This place we are talking about is Singapore Cupid!

Tips for Success on Singapore Cupid:

The following advice is based on 1 year of customer service experience, surveys, and personal correspondence and interviews with individual members on Singapore Cupid.

Some of the statistics used are explained in detail in our November 2002 Newsletter:

1)      Take Action – make your own luck!  Don’t sit on the sidelines and leave your love life to chance.

2)      Create a Profile.  Invest time to understand yourself and the type of person you would be compatible with.  Summarize this understanding in your profile.  Always try to write at least one complete paragraph de scribing yourself and who you are looking for, instead of one or two sentences. This shows seriousness on your part and will attract like-minded individuals.  Your profile and compatibility chart should express your uniqueness as an individual.  Be honest.

3)      Upload Photos.  You will dramatically increase your profile’s exposure by up to 1000% by taking a minute to upload your pictures using easy automated facilities.

4)      Upgrade to Deluxe Membership.  Your profile will be highlighted, appear first in all search results, and can display email and ICQ contact information.  Your profile will get 3000% more exposure and 35,000+ visitors monthly to Singapore Cupid will be able to contact you directly.  You will also be able to contact all profiles that interest you.  All of this for $16.95 only.  There is one common thread amongst all the Success Stories on Singapore Cupid – either the man or the woman or both had Deluxe Memberships!

5)      Identify People that Interest You.  Use Advance Search Facilities to identify people that might be compatible with you.  Set your MatchMaker preferences so that the system will email you newly created profiles that match your criteria and automatically forward your profile to them.  Check to see who has bookmarked you and use reverse matchmaker to see whose criteria has selected your profile.

6)      Contact the People that Interest You.  Use our online facility to email people you are interested in learning more about.  Your first email will set the tone for subsequent correspondence.  Read each profile carefully; mention in your message the things that caught your eye, and ask questions to learn more about each person.  Mention things about yourself that they might relate to.  Let people know you want to be friends first and foremost.  This sets a relaxed tone for open communication.

7)      Follow-up.  The people that contact you or reply to your messages will be genuinely interested in getting to know you better.  Take the time to share your thoughts with them via email, online chat, or phone.  This is a chance for each person to demonstrate his or her sincerity and willingness to forge friendship.

8)      Meet.  If you feel things are going well, meet for coffee or lunch.  Let your instincts tell you where to go next!

9)      Evaluate.  During the course of your experience on Singapore Cupid, periodically revise your profile to reflect new thoughts.  If you feel the response rate to your profile should be higher, ask yourself the following questions.  Are your expectations realistic and modest?  Are you polite and tactful in correspondence?  Are you taking action and following up?

10)  Be Patient, Persistent, and Positive.  Some Singapore Cupid members were online for over 5 months before meeting the right person.  One woman was on the website for only 2 days before finding true love.  Just like most things in life, finding love is part fate and part hard work.  But life is too short to take things lying down.  If you must, go out and meet a few hundred guys or gals that interest you.  At least one will be quite suitable for a happy life together.  The other alternative is …. well, there is no other alternative but blind luck – something you cannot depend on. 

The Cost Benefits of Singapore Cupid:

With 4 weddings underway and countless blooming relationships, it is easy to see the value being added by Singapore Cupid to the lives of its members.

To clarify what a Deluxe Membership gets you, let's examine the costs in time and money associated with Singapore 's most popular activity for socializing: Clubbing.

One Night of Clubbing

One Month of Clubbing (going out 3 times)

The typical results are:

1) Some excitement.

2) Opportunities to flirt with the opposite sex.

3) Perhaps, the chance to meet and get to know 1 or 2 potential partners.

Now let's look at a Deluxe Membership on Singapore Cupid:

One Month Deluxe Singapore Cupid Membership

The typical results are:

1) You can immediately communicate with thousands of Singles that are interested in making new friends for fun as well as romance.

2) You can be going out on dates instead of trying to determine the intentions of men and women in the midst of crowds and noise at clubs.

If you are interested in meeting new people and finding your soulmate, let Singapore Cupid bring like-minded Singles to your doorstep at nominal cost!