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Singapore Cupid : Dating in Singapore

THE SINGAPORE CUPID DATING SCENE

Why should you trust Singapore Cupid over hundreds of other online dating sites? Please print the following material for your perusal and read it at your convenience. You deserve to know the facts if you are going to rely on us to find true love for you.


Would You Like To Stop Wasting Time & Money On Unsatisfactory Dates FOREVER?

Are You Serious About Finding Love?

If you answered "yes" to either or both of these questions, we've got great news for you!

After years of waiting, Singaporean Singles finally have a reliable website for meeting their social and emotional needs. Singapore Cupid is the by-product of years of research and hard work. You can thus be assured of a superior roadmap for your romantic journey.

 

"Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wonderful attempt at starting this much-needed and long-awaited communication channel between friends and couples-to-be!

At last, I have found something true to its name and fortunately a home-grown one specially dedicated to its purpose.

 Please allow me to offer my finest congratulation and compliment for your management and staff team effort to make this possible in getting this long-awaited project off the ground and to continue the excellent quality and improved productivity shown. "

Kent Chan

 

 

Good Day,

How do you do?

Let me start off with congratulating SingaporeCupid.com.  With numerous newspaper and magazines featuring Singapore Cupid, we know that you are the premier Online Dating Site in Singapore .

-Softalk Asia-

 

A Little Background - And An All-Too-Common Love Hassle In Singapore

Singapore Cupid has enjoyed a healthy stream of visitors since starting in August 2002. We take pride in the fact that we have brought  together many Singaporeans who wanted genuine love in their lives.  Our membership base has exploded from a few hundred to close to 11,000 members today. This is a definite success for a website still in its infancy!

Hi! was really enjoying making friends on your site.

Real good features you got. Anyway my reason for leaving your website would be because I have found my one true love.

Her nick is Cecilia. She and I is so love that we are never apart for 24hrs since we met!! I must stress that I'm so in love with her.

I must say that i'm grateful to you guys for helping me find her. Guess you guys must be happy for me too! :)

By now you would also have received her success story too. Thanks for the early X'mas present.

Wish you guys a happy new year!

- Maurice-

 

I met Maurz from this website, today we are happy couple together for almost 7 months now. We both feel that we'll be the last for each other and this is the reason why we are no longer going to search further.

-Cecilia-

 

 

Hi Singapore Cupid Thanks for helping me to find that special someone in my life. That person is Paul. My life changes when i have meet him. My life becomes more happy, colorful and fun with him by my side. Although we only known each other for 3 months, but we seem to know each other for a century. He always know how to cheer me up whenever I am sad. Now we are bf and gf now. Tomorrow we are celebrating our first valentine day together. Hope that we will always stay sweet and cute forever. And may everyone will find that special person soon. Best wishes and regards Michelle 13/2/2003

-Shimei-

 

 

Dear Anne,

Hi I have met someone through your cupid site and am currently going steady . I would like to thank your site for this. I would hence like to withdraw my membership. Please remove me officially from your site. Kindly remove my account from your cupid website and best wishes to all at the cupid site and thank you very much for all your hard work.

Your sincerely

-Emily-

 

Dear Singapore Cupid,

I had found my soulmate cum life partner. I would like to thank singaporecupid.com in helping me to seek my girlfriend.

-Colin-

 

 

THE FACTS ABOUT SINGLES IN SINGAPORE

Through our correspondence with Singles and studious research, we have determined the common CONCERNS of many Singles in Singapore. 

  • Many of Them Feel The Government Should Leave Their Individual Single Lives Alone

  • Many Singles Are Too Busy Working To Have Time To Socialize

At least this sites gives us more chances to be socialable despites our long working hours. Keep it up. Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year to your staff and company!

-Alice Tan-

 

Dear Singapore Cupid

 Thanks for the email and the recommendation to visit the site.  I support the effort in promoting socializing among busy Singaporeans.  Wish you success. 

-Phillip Ang-

 

Dear cupid,
it is much appreciated to have this website...especially for people like us who is always busy working n no time to widen the circle of friends....keep up the good work....hope that more activities will be coming soon....

Keep up the good work!!!!....
Michael,
Ardent supporter of SingaporeCupid.com

  • Singaporean Women No Longer Want A Good Provider Only

  • Singaporean Men Are Still Searching For Their Traditional Wife

  • Educational Attainment And Career Advancement Has Caused Some To Postpone Marriage And Many Others To Remain Single In Their Lifetime  -Finding disclosed in an abstract from the Singapore Department of Statistics dated 1 April 2002

  • Surveys Reveal That Many Women Are Put Off From Raising Families

  • Men Have Set Aside Marriage And Raising A Family To Pursue Their Careers

  • The Dating Game Has Become Increasingly Complex 

  • I'm Sick Of The Rosy Picture Painted Of "Coupledom" - A NUS Law Student

  • Many Are Not Willing To Give Up Their Freedom Or Social Life For Married Life 

  • Some Are Getting Hitched Simply To Secure A HDB Flat

  • People Who Want To Get Married Cannot Do So Because of Barriers Inherent In Society

  • A Social Stigma Associated With Single Singaporeans Is That They Are Undesirable And Are Being Left On The Shelf

  • A Member of SDU Was Quoted As Saying "When you meet people at an SDU function, then you say "Eh, this girl....is she someone for me, for life! that sort of situation. So, the whole time that you are there, you are thinking about that. And that actually creates some...very artificial environment and subconsciously you do judge people on that basis. And sometimes, that is not actually a very good thing."

  • Many Singles Do Not Know What They Are Looking For In Their Life Partner

  • Many Give Up In Frustration When They Can't Find Their True Love

  • Some Are Desperate Just To Tie The Knot To Give In To Social Pressure And End Up Settling For Anyone

For all these reasons and more, Singaporeans choose to remain single and private about their social lives. So what then are the solutions? The answer: there is only ONE SOLUTION and that's "Singapore Cupid".  The reason for this is, we take pride in our service, we truly believe in what we are doing, and we want you our valued members to know this beyond a shadow of a doubt.  Here is how we address the concerns of Single Singaporeans:

  • Many of Them Feel The Government Should Leave Their Individual Single Lives Alone - As a privately held company, our purpose is solely to serve as an introduction service for Singles in Singapore.  Members are free to pursue romance at their own pace and in their own style.


  • Many Singles Are Too Busy Working To Have Time To Socialize - Singapore Cupid works for members while they are out doing other things.  And Deluxe Members can essentially put our system on cruise control while emails from interested suitors come streaming in!  


  • Singaporean Women No Longer Want A Good Provider Only - The men on Singapore Cupid encompass the full gamut of personalities and beliefs.  Our comprehensive profiles and compatibility charts allow women to gauge perspective partners in innumerable ways that are simply not possible during cursory conversations at clubs and parties.


  • Singaporean Men Are Still Searching For Their Traditional Wife - Singapore Cupid attracts a diverse spectrum of ladies whose desires and intentions are as varied as the criteria set by the gentlemen on Singapore Cupid.  There is only one place in Singapore where you can get to know hundreds of available women in a short time!  YOU'RE ALREADY THERE!


  • Educational Attainment And Career Advancement Has Caused Some To Postpone Marriage And Many Others To Remain Single In Their Lifetime  -Finding disclosed in an abstract from the Singapore Department of Statistics dated 1 April 2002 - Many Singles are not looking for commitment at this time.  Singapore Cupid allows them to find others that feel the same way.  Here Singles can meet for friendship and fun; and if that leads to love later, that's all the better!


  • Surveys Reveal That Many Women Are Put Off From Raising Families - A search of male profiles on Singapore Cupid (using our Advanced Search facilities) will quickly reveal that just as many men feel the same way.  And many others want families.  "There is someone for everyone" on Singapore Cupid. 


  • Men Have Set Aside Marriage And Raising A Family To Pursue Their Careers - There are women on Singapore Cupid that have done the same.  Regardless, there is still a unfulfilled need for nurturing and caring friendships with the opposite sex.  Both men and women can meet this need here without having to wed and assume the role of father or mother.


  • The Dating Game Has Become Increasingly Complex - Online dating simplifies matters by bringing together men and women that place importance on companionship and love and by allowing them to get to know one another at a pace they feel comfortable - via email, online chat, phone calls, and personal meetings. 


  • I'm Sick Of The Rosy Picture Painted Of "Coupledom" - A NUS Law Student - Our philosophy is to allow Singles to develop the relationships that work best for them.  Marriage and children are not for everyone.  With thousands of profiles online and the number growing daily, Singapore Cupid hopes to nurture a garden of love and understanding that is open to all types of men and women. 


  • Many Are Not Willing To Give Up Their Freedom Or Social Life For Married Life - Seeking friendship and dates only on Singapore Cupid is perfectly fine.  Go at your own pace and meet like-minded Singles that understand where you are coming from.


  • Some Are Getting Hitched Simply To Secure A HDB Flat - In the past, limited access to eligible men and women made Singles believe that true love was not possible in their lives.  So they settled for a "roommate" instead.  A quick glance at the thousands of profiles on Singapore Cupid will quickly show you the story has changed.  True love is indeed waiting for you here!  Find it and the HDB Flat will be waiting, but now it will also become a happy home.


  • People Who Want To Get Married Cannot Do So Because of Barriers Inherent In Society - Not only can you meet and get to know anyone from any race, culture, or religion on Singapore Cupid, but you are also part of an online community that offers NO barriers to your happiness.


  • A Social Stigma Associated With Single Singaporeans Is That They Are Undesirable And Are Being Left On The Shelf - We do not believe this and neither do thousands of Singapore Cupid members online today.  Everyone deserves that very best out of life.  We understand that love and understanding are precious and difficult to find in today's materialistic society.  This website's very purpose is to facilitate the process of finding love and companionship.


  • A Member of SDU Was Quoted As Saying "When you meet people at an SDU function, then you say "Eh, this girl....is she someone for me, for life! that sort of situation. So, the whole time that you are there, you are thinking about that. And that actually creates some...very artificial environment and subconsciously you do judge people on that basis. And sometimes, that is not actually a very good thing." - Online dating takes the pressure off and allows you to correspond from the comfort of your own home.  No decisions have to made.  No proposals have to be offered.  Simply take things one step at a time.


  • Many Singles Do Not Know What They Are Looking For In Their Life Partner - If you don't know what you are looking for, a good place to start is the profile search on Singapore Cupid.  Read what men and women are writing about themselves and what they want.  Email people you share affinity with and get to know yourself in the process.  It is a matter of time before you start finding the questions and answers within your own soul.


  • Many Give Up In Frustration When They Can't Find Their True Love - By offering a huge database of potential partners and adding new ones everyday, your frustrations here will be short-lived as new opportunities emerge each week.


  • Some Are Desperate Just To Tie The Knot To Give In To Social Pressure And End Up Settling For Anyone - Take a look at the profiles of Singapore Cupid members.  They are optimistic and not ready to just settle for anyone.  The sheer volume of correspondence initiated on Singapore Cupid attests to the effort being made to understand one another at the most subliminal level.


 

The TEN Dangerous TRUTHS That Are Costing You A Fortune & Priceless Time

 

TRUTH 1: Many matchmaking agencies charge exorbitant amounts of money upfront (sometimes in the thousands), promising to find your life partner for you. How many Singles do they have in their files?  A hundred, a thousand maybe? Do they hide anything about a person from you, that you should know?  Are these Singles active or are their files outdated?  Can they definitely guarantee your romantic success after you having paid such a HUGE sum of money? 

 

I still find this website much better than those private match-matching agencies which are really untrustable as they seem to cheat those whom are much olders.

-Alice Tan-

 

FACT: Singapore Cupid allows you to find the love of your life at NO COST OR LOW COST. You can find love either way, as a free member or as a deluxe member. Of course your chances are much greater with a Deluxe Membership that's priced very reasonably. Deluxe Membership provides you the immediate privilege of contacting thousands of members of your choice. At Singapore Cupid, members individually create the profiles themselves and fill in all vital information to help them identify compatible life partners. Our Management in no way alters profiles  All profile information comes directly from the individuals themselves.

 

TRUTH 2: Most dating websites do not guarantee you love for the money you pay. What happens if you don't find love from their site? Do they provide you any value added incentives? Do they force you to shoulder all the risks?

FACT: At Singapore Cupid, You Are Assured Of A Relationship Backed By A ONE YEAR LOVE GUARANTEE - You can be confident in the quality of our service. With the right approach, effort and determination, we guarantee you that within a year you will be able to find your potential love and develop a meaningful relationship. Otherwise, you get a BONUS 6 months FREE membership with Personal Love Consultations.  Now does that sound like a fair & generous deal to you?

 

TRUTH 3:  Other dating websites have membership subscriptions that are too expensive for Singaporeans.

FACT: Singapore Cupid offers the LOWEST prices out of all our competitors in Singapore.  And we have sophisticated features that simply are NOT FOUND ELSEWHERE such as Compatibility Charts that allow you to compare yourself with others in 12 relationship areas, Photo Galleries of all profiles displaying pictures, a simple profile creation process that allows Singles to define themselves via 54 characteristics, Profile Statistics that provide detailed information on the types of men and women you are likely to encounter on Singapore Cupid, Just for Lunch which promotes casual dates over lunch or drinks, Events Hosting Facilities that allow members to organize and promote their own social events, and MUCH MORE!

 

TRUTH 4: Many websites do not really care if you do find love success or not. They do not give you the personal touch nor get involved with you should you need someone to talk to.

FACT: Since we have experienced the entire Online Dating Process ourselves before meeting each other on the Internet, we know how frustrating and tough it can be at times. That is why we want you to avoid the mistakes we made. When you need love advice or just someone to talk to we are always there for you. We will provide the best guidance possible to allow you to attain the love that you deserve.  You can reach us anytime at 6365-5713.  Please do not hesitate to call.

 

"I wrote to you a couple of months ago regarding whether "Should 2 persons from different religion backgrounds stay  together or go?" Well it's been sometime now and I thought I update you on my little love story.

Things went smoothly after I heeded your advices and we started to go out for shows and do things we both enjoy doing. I really enjoyed her company and I could tell that she does too. Then things started to turn quiet between me and her. I think it's because she's busyz with her final year studies and I'm busy trying to crave a career that gradually, we stopped talking and messaging each other in the early months of this year. I was startled that the situation has become like this!"

-Kelvin-

 

"Thanks for taking your precious time to read and reply my agony! Truly and greatly appreciated."

-Yong Hwa-

 

Dear Anne,

Once again, thank you for your time spent on my problems. I hope my dreams can come true later. 

 Best regards,

-Yvonne-

 

Hi Anne
Thanks for taking the trouble to reply and for your encouraging words ....
I will certainly get a nice profile together for Singapore Cupid and try my luck !!
Good luck with your exciting enterprise !!

Best Regards


-Steven-

 

TRUTH 5: Generally the people that run dating websites have no significant personal experience with Internet dating. They HAVE NOT practiced what they preach.  To them, this is simply another way to make money.

FACT:  As the founders of Singapore Cupid, we have proven that Internet Dating works. We met on the Internet and have now been happily married for over a year. We have definitely practiced & experienced all that we are helping members to achieve for themselves!  Singapore Cupid is much more than a business for us.  It is our way of thanking the powers that helped us to meet each other when a distance of 10,000 km separated us.

 

TRUTH 6: Many online dating websites DO NOT display the number of visitors who visited their website on any given day..

FACT: Singapore Cupid displays a counter on the home page telling you the exact number of visitors to our site on any given day. GO take a look right NOW - it's on our home page.

 

TRUTH 7: No online dating website gives you a special BONUS as an incentive to encourage you to NOT GIVE UP in your search for your life partner.

FACT: Singapore Cupid gives you a special bonus: Personal 1-on-1 Love Consultations.  As a Deluxe Member, you will receive private consultations at absolutely NO COST. If you agree, we will go through the contents of your profile, email correspondences and interview you to help refine your approach to the opposite sex.

 

TRUTH 8: No website ever reveals to you exactly how many male and female profiles they have. 

FACT: We tell you exactly how many male and female profiles there are in our system.  GO take a look right NOW on our home page.

TRUTH 9: Other sites are rather complacent and do not take their members opinions seriously.
FACT: We understand the Singapore market completely and have designed an online survey specifically to identify Singaporean needs. This survey has been a great communication tool between members and our team.  Members clearly voice their opinions and suggestions with regards to improvements to Singapore Cupid. We continuously update the website to improve the quality and efficiency of our services to you. We understand you don't want to spend a lifetime searching for your true love. We make the entire process faster by making constant improvements.

TRUTH 10: More than 90% of dating websites market to the mass markets to make quick profits.
FACT: Singapore Cupid is not open to the whole world but rather just for Singapore. We are 100% focused on your specific dating needs and constantly revise our website strategy to offer you a much more effective service.  Our approach values your romantic success over monetary returns.

Learn About Our Many Free Features!

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    GAIN WITH A  FULLY LOADED DELUXE MEMBERSHIP PACKAGE

We believe in offering you the best, while giving you the most value for your hard earned money. We've fully loaded our Deluxe Membership package, more than you could ever ask for. We continuously add more features and bonuses to our deluxe package. We give you More For LESS.

Remember, the most important rule-of-click in online dating, MARKET YOUR PROFILE AND MAKE IT CLICK OUT FROM THE REST. Marketing your profile is marketing yourself essentially. Love like anything else, needs to be announced in the best way to attract quality dates. Remember it only takes 2 seconds to make an impression. Why not grab the love of your life in those precious 2 seconds?

1) Your profile becomes highly contactable by displaying your contact information, such as email address & ICQ number. Regardless of how exceptionally unique you are, if you can't keep a steady stream of potential dates coming to view your profile, your love search can never be as successful as you'd really like it to be.

Putting the email address on the profile really giving many great chances. I was quite overwhelmed by the emails sent to me. There are even emails from non-members and from overseas like US, Canada even Sweden.

-Jane-

2) You can trust in our quality customer service & hard work to ensure your SUCCESS - We have gained the trust, respect and confidence of many our members and business associates alike. And so, you can trust that we will work alongside with you to make sure you get the very best out of our site to ensure your success.

Hi there...

I must admit Singapore Cupid is a wonderful site and has served its purpose well.

-Ernest-

 

Dear Singapore Cupid staff,

 I enjoy your services and value your high standards.

-Elaine-

 

Dear Sirs

 Hi!  We are impressed by your services and would like to explore possible business partnership with you.

-Jeat Shyan-

 

To the hardness working staffs,

Do not be disappointed, I believe that all your hard work will be rewarded someday. Keep it up, do not let those who misused this website discourage you. All the best. Merry Christmas and a happy new year to all of you great people out there creating miracle for others.

Bless you

-Mike Lim-

 

Thank you very much. You are very efficient .

-Patrix Chiam

 

I believe in your business & sincerely will like to help in whatever ways I can.

-Kristen-

 

3) You are offered the lowest prices as compared to our competitors - Why pay more when you can get much more at a BARGAIN PRICE! Seeing is believing. 

4) Your profile will be BOLDED and HIGHLIGHTED in search result listings so YOU stand out! - As a privileged and exclusive Deluxe Member, your profile will be in the "spotlight" amongst thousands of other profiles. 

5) Your profile will be listed at the top of search results in the default search result ordering! - Here's another opportunity to catch the eye of your  potential partner right away. Since you are always listed at the top of our standard search results, your profile becomes highly seen and contactable. This will allow you to get a high hit rate to your profile, which you otherwise wouldn't have gained as a free member.

6) Opportunity to be featured as the "Latest Featured Profile"- What better way to get the attention of your potential dates other than by greeting him or her with your pleasant smile on Singapore Cupid's homepage? (BONUS): Featured profiles are comprised of Deluxe Member profiles only!

7) Unlimited 1-Year Love Guarantee (BONUS) - We believe in our service and quality. We want to give you our word. That is why we are offering you our unlimited 1-Year Love Guarantee, which is absolutely NOT a common thing to be found on online dating websites. Of course, you have to play your role as well, by helping us with your search for romance and love.

8) We offer you many more features than our competitors - Singapore Cupid clearly offers more features than any of our competitors!

9) Singapore Cupid has the largest Singaporean Membership Base of all dating websites!

10) Personal Love Consultations With The Founders Sanju & Anne Goswami (BONUS) - Because we met on the Internet and got married despite a long distance separation, we have learned the critical elements for online dating success. We want to share these tips & tricks with you and provide you all the help and consultation you need to secure your much deserved love as well.  As a Deluxe Member, you can contact us anytime at 6365-5713.  We are ready to offer our assistance and advice whenever necessary.

11) What You See Is What You Get - Unlike other websites, at Singapore Cupid, you are not left wondering how many male and female profiles there are or when they were created or when members last logged in.  All information is displayed on our home page and on individual profiles.

12) No Hidden Statistics- We DO NOT hide our statistics. You deserve to know how many visitors have visited our website on any given day. We show you the exact number of visitors to the site on any given day.  We also provide complete statistics on all profiles.

AND YOU CAN EXPECT MORE VALUE IN THE FORM OF SOCIAL EVENTS, NEWSLETTERS, WORKSHOPS, & FUTURE ENHANCEMENTS.

If you would like to ask us any questions before you make the decision to upgrade to Deluxe Membership,  please feel free to email us at anne@singaporecupid.com!  We will personally answer your questions within 24 hours.

Good Luck with Your Romantic Journey!

Sanju & Anne Goswami
The Cupids of Singapore
http://www.singaporecupid.com 
anne@singaporecupid.com

 

 
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